If the excellent tips in our Pulling Guides have failed you, then here is an excellent helpful assistant...
The Chat Up Aid Card. Just print and cut-out the card below and then simply:
1 - Tick one of the boxes that best describes your approach. 2 - Give the card to the person in question. 3 - Leave then to digest, and get yourself a stiff drink. 4 - Wait patiently for a response.
The card works equally well for lads and ladies. Good luck.